Love is just a four letter word to some people, it has no meaning, it's merely a facade they use to get something or someone they want.
Love and lust don't have the same meaning, so I don't get why people use them as such. Stringing someone along like a puppet is not right, rather make your intentions clear from the beginning. Humans are emotional beings, playing with someone's emotions might make them do irrational things since the heart fails to see reason when it's broken.
People get into relationships with different mindsets and intentions but one expects the other to be on the same page as the other since people date without getting to know each other.
Why Rush Into Things If You Don't Know What The Person Is About?
Taking things slow and getting to know someone should always be at the top of your priority list. It's advisable to clearly state your do's and don't before taking things to the next level(dating). Rather know what the other person is about... while there's still time for you to make a quick exit if he/she is not what you pictured.
Some people have dark sides, on the surface they might seem normal but deep inside they're hurt and angry. Some because of old relationships which failed. Those very same people end up abusing you and hurting you for silly stuff like interacting with another guy. Failed relationships make some guys paranoid, they make sure the next relationship doesn't fail even if it means hurting the one you claim "you love" inorder keep them from leaving you.
Insecurities and paranoia are the down fall of many relationships. People (mostly males) end up abusing their partner. Instead of communicating they lay their lays on them. They jump to conclusions. The problem with most men is that they demand respect as if it's owed to them, they get angry if their partner argues with me... even if they're the one who started throwing insults, they get angry if the same is done to them by their partner. That's how the abuse starts
The anger builds up to a point where it causes the male's emotions to erupt like a volcano. The heat of the moment causes him to assault his partner. It's no excuse saying "something came over me" since you feel the urges to hit someone rise when arguing with someone, you could've walked away inorder to cool down and think level headedly.
What I've noticed is that guys who aren't that good looking who date really beautiful and attractive chicks, are always the ones abusing their partners, I don't know if they're insecure or scared that she'll leave for someone better or something. They probably think they aren't worthy enough or handsome enough to date them.
That's why there's such a thing called types and preferences, if you know you're insecure, rather date someone who doesn't draw much attention. That way you'll be happy and secure. Don't go for someone who catches every guys eye if you're gonna get jealous. Know yourself!
Love and lust don't have the same meaning, so I don't get why people use them as such. Stringing someone along like a puppet is not right, rather make your intentions clear from the beginning. Humans are emotional beings, playing with someone's emotions might make them do irrational things since the heart fails to see reason when it's broken.
People get into relationships with different mindsets and intentions but one expects the other to be on the same page as the other since people date without getting to know each other.
Why Rush Into Things If You Don't Know What The Person Is About?
Taking things slow and getting to know someone should always be at the top of your priority list. It's advisable to clearly state your do's and don't before taking things to the next level(dating). Rather know what the other person is about... while there's still time for you to make a quick exit if he/she is not what you pictured.
Some people have dark sides, on the surface they might seem normal but deep inside they're hurt and angry. Some because of old relationships which failed. Those very same people end up abusing you and hurting you for silly stuff like interacting with another guy. Failed relationships make some guys paranoid, they make sure the next relationship doesn't fail even if it means hurting the one you claim "you love" inorder keep them from leaving you.
Insecurities and paranoia are the down fall of many relationships. People (mostly males) end up abusing their partner. Instead of communicating they lay their lays on them. They jump to conclusions. The problem with most men is that they demand respect as if it's owed to them, they get angry if their partner argues with me... even if they're the one who started throwing insults, they get angry if the same is done to them by their partner. That's how the abuse starts
The anger builds up to a point where it causes the male's emotions to erupt like a volcano. The heat of the moment causes him to assault his partner. It's no excuse saying "something came over me" since you feel the urges to hit someone rise when arguing with someone, you could've walked away inorder to cool down and think level headedly.
What I've noticed is that guys who aren't that good looking who date really beautiful and attractive chicks, are always the ones abusing their partners, I don't know if they're insecure or scared that she'll leave for someone better or something. They probably think they aren't worthy enough or handsome enough to date them.
That's why there's such a thing called types and preferences, if you know you're insecure, rather date someone who doesn't draw much attention. That way you'll be happy and secure. Don't go for someone who catches every guys eye if you're gonna get jealous. Know yourself!
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